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Reply to "DH dislikes my parents and will not visit them with me"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t care for in-laws, and they have been markedly uninvolved grandparents. We do visit 1-2 year, staying in a hotel, and trying to find some additional activities for our DCs. I do this because I want my DH to be okay with his relationship with them especially because they are older with some health issues. I feel it is my obligation as a spouse, and he has always been good with my parents. It is on him to bring it up, but I will continue to support him If he wants us to go. He usually visits once a year without us as well. They will be gone eventually, and I don’t want any tension about this between us. I can grin and bear it for a few days a couple times a year. Your DH can too.[/quote] Ah, the old 'I feel it's my obligation so it must be your obligation, too' and "since I do it, others can do it" argument. :roll: [/quote]
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