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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow

This thread is basically an advertisement for sleep training[/quote]

I agree.

And people who clearly should not be parents.
Getting a good nights sleep is so important.

OP you really need parenting classes[/quote]

People who think I'm a monster for letting my six month old cry for an hour for three nights, yet are ok with their kids being chronically sleep deprived for literal years. Make it make sense. [/quote]

My kids were not sleep deprived and not were we. Kids slept with parents or parents slept with kids. Kids didn’t wake up and if they did they saw parents next to them and fell back asleep because they were not scared of being alone.

Everyone slept great and happy and nobody cared for hours for parents that never came. To each their own[/quote]

Glad it worked out for you, but there are responses here talking about their kids waking several times a night for years. That is sleep deprivation, and extremely dangerous for brain development, not to mention the parents. [/quote]

And what would you recommend? I know sleep deprivation is bad. My kid and I lived it for years. I tried everything to not have it happen and it still did. You can’t control everything in life. Just because I know sleep is important and I prioritized it and tried my best to sleep train and set us up for solid sleep doesn’t mean I can force my kid to sleep. We tried every method, we saw drs and specialists specifically about sleep issues. Nothing worked.

Some posters here seem to think if you just  follow some formula you’ll get a good sleeper and if you have a bad sleeper that’s a reflection on you as a parent. Not in my experience. [/quote]

This thread doesn't apply to you. You did sleep train. OP is asking about people who didn't sleep train. Which you did. Hello. [/quote]

It does apply to me because sleep training wasn’t successful, which is what PPs who are criticizing parents of kids who don’t sleep well are saying is a parenting failure.[/quote]

No, they're talking about parents who refuse to sleep train and have their six year olds waking four nights a week. That is a parenting failure. People who have kids who don't respond to sleep training aren't the issue. I know because I am one. [/quote]

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