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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a therapist who kept asking about my childhood. They were looking for me to talk about dysfunction but I had a lovely childhood with wonderful parents. Relationship therapist once really wanted us to hire a cleaning lady instead of working on any problems my ex and I had regarding him not doing any chores and expecting me to do it all. [/quote] I agree with the therapist. If your ex hated doing chores so much, why not use part of his salary to hire a cleaning lady? It sounds like you demanded that he should do the chores because you don’t mind doing them. But you were annoyed that he wouldn’t pitch in. You weren’t looking for a resolution, you were looking to be in control. I’ll bet a good deep dive into your childhood and things wouldn’t be a peachy keen as you remember them, which would help explain your extreme rigidity. Signed a lady who hates chores and who happily hires others to do them.[/quote]
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