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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here is the situation:  I worked at a large law firm.  I had a relationship with a partner that went beyond professional.  I felt I was not in a position to say no, and I met for dates over several months.  I agreed to an out-of-court settlement with the Law Firm.  My partner and I no longer work there.  My H knew nothing about any of it, as it all occurred while he was on extended TDY.   He found the settlement documents on our shared household computer.  H said he is more upset about my hiding the whole settlement than the fact that I might have had an affair.  He says if I was indeed sexually abused at work, why wouldn't I tell him, and further that I hid the settlement from him is a breach of trust that cannot be repaired.

I have always felt with his constant travel that H is never there to take care of me.  Now, I need him when I have a back injury and he won't help. [/quote]

You lied to your husband throughout. If a superior was pressuring me for an affair, I would talk to my husband about it as I would know I need to leave my job and I need my husband's support if I quit my job without having another job lined up. my husband and I are partners and we would discuss the situation and strategize together on how to resolve it  whether confronting the partner or another partner at the firm or quitting or whatever. You kept some pretty big secrets from your spouse and I'm not surprised that he is done.[/quote]

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