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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Also, my wife’s perspective on what she has to bring to the table in the bedroom is probably a direct result of her young single days. Like I said, she’s got a pretty ridiculous body and guys were falling all over her. So her perspective “why are you complaining when there’s a line of guys who would bend over backwards just to be with me”"

I think this "you're lucky to have me" attitude among women is really problematic and it leads to things like this DH resorting to porn for satisfaction. It's lazy and it's disrespectful to one's partner even when you're young. And it's ridiculous when you're older and no longer that hot young thing. In other threads people often scoff at "older" women who say that their sex partners find them just as appealing as a younger woman. But I could easily see that this is true given that younger women who are still able to get away with being lazy in bed pale in comparison to women who have sex with enthusiasm and who behave as though they really want to be there, wrinkles and all. In an ideal world for most men, a woman would have a great figure (in his eyes), she'd know her own body and how to enjoy it and take what she wants from her partner, and she'd be really excited about having sex with him. Women who take a lazy in bed approach do so at their own peril.[/quote]

She probably wasn’t like that with her previous partners.  The things women want for sex and the things women want for a stable marriage are often not the same thing.  [/quote]

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