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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sounds like she fell out of love and isn't interested in being married to OP anymore, but it's not like she hates OP. She still wants to be friends.  OP is still in love so it's hard for him and he needs the separation in order to process emotionally.  I don't think she's acting "crazy" but it doesn't sound like she realizes how painful her behavior is to OP.  OP should tell her.  [/quote]

So she got bored I guess....[/quote]

DP.

It may be that she is done mourning the marriage. She may have mourned for a year or two  before she filed. OP is still processing now, so he needs space.

Her behavior is inappropriate, but it makes sense if she has already processed. She is lacking in awareness and empathy towards what OP might be going through though.

There are so many issues that can be frustrating about a person when you are married/in a relationship with them that you no longer mind once you are done.[/quote]

+1. This so true. Men very often are taken by surprise when the divorce bombshell drops. Women process their loss before filling for their divorce. I think this is why we cope far better than men. [/quote]

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