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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am deeply, mutually in love and feel I have found my person. He feels the same. But he has a young child, and I’d never imagined that I would be with someone with a kid. Taking on the role of stepparent and having his ex be part of his/our life forever seems like too much for me to take on. Keeping his life with me and his life as a parent separate as we have been is starting to weigh heavily and it’s getting close to the time where I need to jump in or jump ship. Every day I agonize over whether I should walk away from the love of my life and break both our hearts (but set him free), or accept the life I must have to be with him. Some days I think it would be crazy to walk away and lose so much happiness, and some days I think it would be crazy to stay and risk so much unhappiness. It feels like the true pivotal moment of my life and I don’t know what to do. [/quote]

PP you aren’t in love. You are fond of aspects of this person. Parenthood is a part of who someone is. If you can’t embrace that you should leave. [/quote]

I agree with this take on the situation. You need to be selfless sometimes and you're not.[/quote]

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