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[quote=Anonymous]IME, secretive people have a reason they are secretive and it's rarely about random coworkers. They have had a stalker, they have an abusive spouse, they have a mentally unwell spouse, they have serious issues in their life, etc. They don't want to share more than they have to, and that's completely okay. I also find that when I don't press and I just respect them, support them, and be kind to them, eventually they decide I'm trustworthy enough to open up to. This isn't about you, and it's probably not about them either. It's probably about something in their lives, and OP, I would strongly encourage you to ask yourself whether you are gentle enough with the people around you to earn their trust. That's probably a more fruitful line of inquiry than asking internet strangers why your coworkers is reluctant to open up. [/quote]
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