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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men affair down. The "lesser" women throw themselves at him in a way that makes him feel validated, desired, powerful, etc. They are eager to please him whether that's doing anything in bed or letting him call the boundaries and run the show. Also, in general, people who get involved with a married person likely have some sort of issue whether that's mental health, self worth, insecure, anxious attachment, previous abuse.[/quote]

This is quite a cope. Men often cheat with married professional/status peers. Takes two to tango dear. It really comes down to opportunity and orbit.[/quote]

It’s this.

Sure, there are trends and stories tnst can be weaved after and by others.

But it all comes down to chance and opportunity. I thought I would never cheat. But I met someone who literally knocked me over with attraction and chemistry.

It never progressed physically but it happened so quickly and I’m not sad that it did because it opened my eyes to some uncomfortable truths about my marriage and the level of dysfunction there.

I’m split now and have had some emotional affairs with married men who are just sad and want attention. As do I, but without the strings.

Marriage is primarily an economic unit, not an emotional one. I think it’s time we stop blaming normal people for not making it work. [/quote]

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