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[quote=Anonymous]I handle it by not caring if I get anything. I tell my super dysfunctional parents to spend their money, enjoy their lives. I decided a long time ago to just let go of their money as having anything to do with me (they have a lot of it). Because it doesn't. It takes that power away. They can promise you money, take that promise away, it doesn't matter. If my mom is unkind to me and I stand up for myself, she can say "you're not getting anything" and I'll just say "okay that's fine, but doesn't change the fact that I expect guests in my home to speak to me respectfully." It's not a weapon they can use. As a result, I have a much more functional relationship with my parents than any of my siblings, all of whom are pretty fixated on the money.[/quote]
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