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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'll be one of those that shock you. My husband isn't a bad guy and there's no cheating but I've been carrying too much for too long. Despite my pleas, despite lots of counseling, my husband hasn't been a good partner. Our marriage has died because of a 1,000 cuts. I recognized when our youngest was in HS that nothing would change. Having to carry so much has killed my love for my husband. I wouldn't want to be married to someone who feels the way I do about my husband. It's not like I'm hostile but just that I have accepted that my role is disproportionately responsible for the family and that once our youngest leaves for college, I will be free to pursue a more fulfilling life. I'm biding my time. I have no problem being in social/family situations with my husband. We're civil/polite. The ties that bind us are nearly broken. [/quote] Why don't you just drop the load right now? What's stopping you? Your HS kid can pick up the slack. DH can fend for himself. Why don't you act instead of ask?[/quote]
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