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[quote=Cloud][quote=Anonymous]Contact the friend. Ask him. He'll probably lie. Tell you're husband you're taking him to the bar so you can ask the stripper. [/quote]

Yeah, I think this would at least open up some dialogue-- but you need to take the friend AND the husband because the husband claims he blacked out and doesn't remember but the friend was apparently sober enough to recognize that things were getting too friendly and took your husband home, right?

And I agree with another PP- take a pic of that hickey in case you decide to split...

But seriously... I think you have a right to be upset, and he needs to take this seriously.  I can't put myself in your shoes but if you really believe he is a good man and won't do it again and you don't want to split up, give him a few months to stop drinking and prove to you he can go out with his buddies and be responsible about it.  Once he gets his behaviour under control and you start to trust him again-well, time heals and trust grows.

If he slips up again I'd seriously threaten him with your departure because a married man going out and getting blinding drunk with his buddies to the point where he disrespects you in any way is totally unacceptable.[/quote]

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