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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So if you're low drama, why are you making a thing out of this?

Have you seen them since? have they moved on and returned to how they've always been? If so, why are you stirring this up?

Can't you just give them the benefit of the doubt that B maybe needed time to process her feelings and talk it over with a friend - maybe asking A if she's being overly sensitive or whatever. Person A tells B that you all have been out a few times and if she's still upset by it, to talk to you directly. Maybe B agrees and the next time you're all out, B doesn't say anything but A knows B was planning to so tells her to just be honest and upfront.

That's not dramatic. Tht's just life. You're so ready to drop two friends because of this one confrontation. Deny it all you want, but you're overly sensitive and making a big deal out of nothing.[/quote]

It wasn't just the one conversation though. B rants and moans about her ex-husband all the time. OP snapped, tired of hearing about it, and made her comment. It was one comment. Why did B over-react, cry, confront, etc? Maybe she should hear what OP was saying and realize that after 6 years she's better off with the loser.[/quote]

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