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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She sounds insufferable, OP, and you are not the arsehole, but just so you know: never outright criticize a spouse or ex-spouse directly. Even if they really deserve it! Because the person you're talking to will have complicated feelings about it, and even if SHE thinks he was a jerk, YOU don't get to say the same thing.

One of those unwritten rules that trip up innocent bystanders ;-)
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+1000000000 well said.

Plus he’s the father of her kid(s) she won’t want you insulting hat or bringing criticism of him around them. [/quote]

So agreeing with a friend saying x is a jerk is insulting? “My x is a jerk!”  -yeah it sound a like he’s a jerk![/quote]
Op here and I understand this rule. Another example: you are mad at your sister and complain to your best friend about her. Your friend calls your sister a b word and you then feel like kicking your best friend's @$$. In my case, I had listened and kept quiet on at least 25 occasions to her disparage her cheating ex. The day I said something was a day where I was sleep deprived, pmsing and had a headache. I wasn't at my best. [b]I want friends who I can relax around. I don't want to walk on eggshells[/b] and stay quiet when I hear soneone say the same toxic things again and again.[/quote]

These two aren’t your people. You should feel relaxed with friends.

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