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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] He can begin to get SSI benefits for his mental health, because I don't forsee him working again. It's very difficult to get back in the job marketplace after a year when you have a HEALTHY attitude about it, but to try and do so after a year when your mental health is struggling? I don't forsee it happening. Have his doctor/therapist diagnose him with depression, then he can collect a few thousand in SSI every month (it's better than nothing, right?). Just know that they reject 99% of those who apply for it. If you appeal, it will most likely go through. [/quote] I went back to work after a year off twice in my early fifties. Of course it can be done. Don’t overreact.[/quote] +1 PP is a drama queen that is hoping OP's DH will kill himself. I was unemployed from 35-41. Granted I was a SAHP during that time so my contribution wasn't negligible (no day care/nanny costs and domestic work) but it was a piece of cake getting back into a job I enjoy. Now at 51 I make 92k a year basically working 15 hours a week, have 6 weeks PTO, a company car and gas card, and cadallic medical coverage. Nice work if you can get it![/quote]
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