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[quote=Anonymous]Here’s the issue guys…..the husband isn’t on this thread earnestly asking for help. His spouse has taken this on in addition to everything else.

Op - and this is with love from my experience (and no one should have my experience!), you’re in trouble. I agree with the PP’s that without a big lift from him and of course you, he’s not going to work again. Nothing will change. He’s decided to retire and not tell you. Sorry.

He’s living day to day and if you keep enabling him to take so much advantage, he will do it until your kids are in college and then for the rest of your life, you’ve got a grown child.

Has he cheated on you? He and you will say no right away. Are you getting red flags? Don’t ignore them. Him cheating is certainly on the table and if he did, he’ll lie and dig in and you’ll have a job getting him out or dealing with an affair thru counseling while he barely participates. My therapist told me by the time most couples get to him, one has clearly checked out and the process is a waste of time and money.

He’s living in a dream world while you’re living in a nightmare. Wake up and change your life to benefit yourself and your family. He won’t. It’s not fair but who cares, you have to do what is best for yourself and the family.   [/quote]

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