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[quote=Anonymous]Well, you just have to evolve your life and make it more simple if you choose to work. When my kids were elementary or younger, we had "mommy kiddo" time while doing groceries, doing the dishes, watering the plants and folding the laundry. It taught them necessary life skills and we talked about their day and friends. Now my kids will be starting HS and younger MS. They both have part time summer camps and we both are WFH but back to back meetings. They completely do the dishes, prepare lunch for us. They in fact even cleaned up our pantry (just because they had free time on their hands!). They still see friends every day for 3 hours at their pool and play x-box 4-5 times a week + Tennis + Piano so spending 30-40 mins every day is not a really big deal for them. Plus they chat and catch up while doing the work together. We do have housekeepers to come and clean every two weeks and do a lot of fresh salads, simple lunches like sandwiches. 2-3 times takeouts a week. Some frozen food when we are too tired to cook Ask your elementary kids to help out with simple tasks.. and outsource quite a lot. The life that you are imagining with full time household help (Nanny doesn't cut it) is not what middle class families have at least not in US. Move to another country like India.[/quote]
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