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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you still have sex together? If not, which of one you rejected sex first? [/quote]

OP here.  Fair question.  We technically have had sex a handful of yikes in the past couple of years, but I know my definition that would qualify as a “sexless” marriage.

He’s always had a lower sex drive than me but it drastically, drastically went down after the wedding.  Like nearly immediately after.  I initiated 9 times out of 10 and was rejected maybe 7 or 8 of those 9 times for the first year, then we had a kid and it just stayed that low and has been that way for years.  Interestingly the last few years he has initiated much more (as in, a few times a year) but he’s now very crude about it, nothing like actually being physically affection in general and then building up to it.  He’s also picked a lot of fights for years and been very argumentative, veering from picking fights to the silent treatment when I engage and actually make a point, so when he started to initiate a couple of years back, I just wasn’t feeling it at all.  Plus, menopause.  I accept out of obligation sometimes and to not hurt his feelings, or hoping it will improve his mood.  But a decade of rejection leaves me with little enthusiasm.  [/quote]

The PP who said gay/trans is looking pretty smart now. [/quote]

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