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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This isn't about impressing the bully, guys. It's about feeling really good about herself *so that she can forget about how she looks* and just deal with what is in front of her. That's what good grooming and attractive, flattering clothing can do for you. It feels in the cracks of insecurity and serves as a sort of armor -- you aren't crossing your arms to shrink in and hide your breasts, or standing in a way that your butt or your scraped shoes aren't visible. When you really believe you look good, you can forget about it. Then you can focus on dealing with the emotional situation without being distracted. Sometimes you just need your armor.[/quote] I totally agree with this. OP, dress so that you feel great, whatever that is. She’ll never acknowledge how good you look because she sounds like she sucks. I think there are some really great suggestions in this thread (I’m partial to linen and simple, beautiful sandals myself as long as your trip isn’t too long and the linen will stay sharp). But dress for yourself — it’s the best armor as the PP puts it. Good luck and just remember that she sounds TERRIBLE.[/quote]
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