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He may be introverted and be overwhelmed by crowds and intense socialization. Or he may be on the autism spectrum and *really, really* dislike all that.

My husband and son would have sat and read books just like yours, OP. I have no problem with that, since if someone addresses them, they are courteous. But they're definitely going to shy away from crowds and noise.

I think you should work on accepting that your husband is less social than you are, but also address the crabby part - given the rest of your diatribe, I'm not sure how much of that is your resentment speaking, and he's not crabby at all, and how much of it is actual active rudeness on his part. Or maybe you nag him about going to speak with people and he ends up irritated by your insistence?

Also, YES, men and women do have the ability to mask when young and then revert to a less social version of themselves when married with kids... because guess what? It's a lot of togetherness and people, being married with kids. Sometimes you really need to be alone with your thoughts.
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