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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom and sister are both like OP and I'm like Ops husband. Yes, in theory its good to validate OPs annoyance but I also get why DH didnt. It's exhausting dealing with people like my mom and sister and I really resent having to validate their negativity all the time. It isn't like they put in the effort to just roll with things. [/quote] I’m a PP from above and DH gets like OP. I sit there wondering, we are both here, having the same experience, but DH chooses to get hung up and emotional, whereas I have to exert not only energy so I don’t react to the situation, but also more energy to offset DH’s dysregulatation. It’s exhausting. OP see a CBT therapist and learn how to manage your emotions. [/quote]
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