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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I actually saw the host mom at the grocery store this morning.  We chatted briefly (she was coming out as I was going in) and only really said something like hello, how are you.

I think I am reaching the conclusion that I am not considered a full member of the neighborhood group as I thought I was - at least not by this mom.  I think she sees me as someone who shows up and is there, and therefore of course she'll make conversation with me, but she doesn't see me as a friend (and I guess she sees the others as friends).  Maybe I come across as trying too hard?  It's funny, because out of all of the moms in the group, i feel like she and I might have the most in common because we are both really into athletics, and played the same sport in college.

Anyway, thanks for the posts everyone.[/quote]

This is interesting. In our neighborhood moms group I though this one mom would be my best friend. We initially connected well and we had a lot in common. Hung out a lot together and with others, our children all got along. Then she started getting funny and playing this exclusion game.  She would talk about what her and the other mom's did together and I just listened thinking why was she telling me this and I wasn't even invited. Does she not think this would hurt my feelings? She is now nothing like she was when I met her. On some days she barely speaks to me when we are all at the playground.

I have thought relentlessly about what I could have done to upset her, but I just can't come up with anything. Oh, well.
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Sounds just like the mom who did this to me...Does her dh's first name rhyme with Burley? [/quote]

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