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[quote=Anonymous]What’s his concern? Privacy? If you don’t think there are any real behavior concerns such as drinking/drugs or the like he’s trying to hide, then I would work on reassuring him that you have no plans to go through his stuff but will go in there for basic stuff - once he’s a teenager you might add the caveat regarding behavior concerns but at 10-12 not sure I’d add that yet.

My guess since you said tween is that he is probably hiding porn or something like that and is horribly embarrassed at the idea of uoi finding that. That’s nothing I would personally care about.

I might sound permissive here compared to most but I remember how mortified I was at the idea that my parents would go in my room and read or look at my drawing/stories notebooks at this age. I was a total nerd and was up to absolutely nothing lol, just super self conscious and my dad would always try to look at my stuff and I effectively closed him off bc he pushed me in that. My mom gave me space and reassurance and I just trusted her more bc she respected that. [/quote]

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