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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of growth and movement happens in early twenties First job, new cities, relocations, job hopping, figuring out who they are as adults, money matters, etc. For that reason, I would tell my AC to not rush into marriage even if they’ve found their person, they can live together, while they figure themselves out, get stability in the years after college, etc. 26+ would be my vote but I realize I don’t have any control…[/quote]

+1. I was 23 when I got married. Waited until 31 for kids. Still happily married 20 years later, but in hindsight I think it did limit me to have to make life choices that worked for both of us. Paths not taken and all.[/quote]
I was 24 and had my kid at 27 and I agree that it was limiting in some ways. Now that I’m
39 I do feel some new opportunities on the horizon and I’m much more confident and experienced now. Some of my friends had a lot of excitement in their late twenties/early thirties but there are a few who still haven’t found someone despite  really wanting to marry. It’s easier to find a partner when you’re young. [/quote]

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