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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I see now how naive I was about what parenthood is like, and my reasons for wanting kids were short-sighted, stupid, and selfish.

And now I’m paying for it. I will never be free.

No need to feel sorry for my kids. They have a good life, and I block out these feelings during the day. It’s only at night when everyone is asleep and the house is quiet and still enough for these feelings to creep up that I’m overcome with sorrow.

That is all. [/quote]I have those thoughts in the dark of the night too. Mine are 24 and 26 and I know that I will never be free.[/quote]
Not OP but do you mind sharing more? Are they SN? In my mind I am hoping to be free at about 18-20 year mark for my kid, so… [/quote]
One has ASD, level one low support. One has multiple LDs and ADHD, anxiety and other issues.  The second is in grad school and needs quite a bit of emotional support.  The first one has a good job and just moved out to their own apartment but needs some support to keep it up and that won’t change.

According to  the LCSW we see, we should have a bit more freedom when they hit 30- it will be gradual. [/quote]

Thank you so much for responding! I wish you the best[/quote]

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