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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: it’s not that I’m advocating vocational training. I get the value of learning how to read, write, think critically, problem solve. And I see the fringe benefit of art stuff as a fun and healthy activity. But where the arts oriented people lose me is when they choose one school over another based on the arts programming as opposed to variables that may have a more significant long term impact. Like choosing a less reputable school because there are good pottery classes. It just seems that these things are nice to have but for $320k maybe they don’t matter that much and you should be focused on other factors? [/quote] You know, I wanted to believe that you asked the original question out of real curiosity and desire to learn about other people. People replied and explained, and your response is to double down and explain why you’re right and they’re wrong. Seriously, no one is trying to convince you to value the arts as part of a college experience. No one cares whether you value it. Why do you care that others value it? Are you just desperate for something to judge other people about? Good lord.[/quote] The tell is the idea that people are "choosing a less reputable school because there are good pottery classes." [/quote] OP: I’m obviously demonstrating a bit of proletarian disdain for the arts here, but I guess from a practical point of view, when I read things like my DS really wants a strong theatre program or something like that, I’m just thinking to myself - come on- high school is over, a man has to focus on making a living now. I totally appreciate that people have hobbies and interests but, I don’t know, you gotta focus on getting from A to B. That’s just my mindset. Thinking about the quality of art offerings feels frivolous but look, it’s not my wheelhouse. And btw I collect art and appreciate art. I guess I am just focused more on my kids being well positioned to get ultimately good jobs out of this whole college thing and be on a strong career trajectory. I’ve seen people get distracted by their passions and then have nothing to show for it [/quote] Ok. You sound like a neanderthal type of man I never wanted to marry. Are you for real? My husband as a degree in PIANO. He is a jazz pianist who does gigs still. And guess what else he is? He's a surgeon. Yep, a piano playing surgeon. No, he isn't gay or anything, and he isn't a neanderthal. Just a guy who appreciates the arts and how much they contribute to our world. OMG. [/quote] I never said I don’t appreciate art or music. And my non-Neanderthal brain gravitates more towards literature, philosophy etc. I just struggle with the idea that art/music/theatre programming would be paramount in the college decision process but to be honest, I get what people are saying. If kids are normally able to choose among schools of comparable academic quality and so forth, might as well go to the one that will let them have fun with their creative passion. And sure if you know you are headed to law or med school, I guess you can major in anything.[/quote] I've got no room to criticize my kids for a frivolous undergrad. I majored in history! (Then went to law school.) [/quote]
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