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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Blissfully happy for 16 years. Then he got a promotion that required him to travel one week a month. Things felt off and distant pretty quickly, but he blamed it on work stress and being tired.  A few months later I discovered he was having an affair with his admin assistant, who traveled with him on those trips.  When I confronted him, it was like someone flipped a switch overnight and my husband was gone, replaced with a look-alike that just looked at me with empty dead eyes. He was there, but I couldn’t reach him, didn’t recognize the man he seemed to be, and realized that I didn’t even like this person.

Divorced a year later.  [/quote]

My “soul mate” also had a lobotomy around years 16-18.  It really is looking at someone you knew and loved for 20-some years and not even recognizing them anymore.

So sorry you went through this too.  It’s devastating and hurts your brain. [/quote]

This happened to my marriage too.  At year 17 it’s like my best friend and the person I’d shared the last 20 years of my life disappeared.  We got along great and it was so out of the blue.  We were still having regular sex too.  Divorced a year later.  Gone and replaced by someone I don’t recognize.[/quote]

Did you still do stuff together like vacation or go on dates? Kid stuff?[/quote]

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