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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Blissfully happy for 16 years. Then he got a promotion that required him to travel one week a month. Things felt off and distant pretty quickly, but he blamed it on work stress and being tired.  A few months later I discovered he was having an affair with his admin assistant, who traveled with him on those trips.  When I confronted him, it was like someone flipped a switch overnight and my husband was gone, replaced with a look-alike that just looked at me with empty dead eyes. He was there, but I couldn’t reach him, didn’t recognize the man he seemed to be, and realized that I didn’t even like this person.

Divorced a year later.  [/quote]

My “soul mate” also had a lobotomy around years 16-18.  It really is looking at someone you knew and loved for 20-some years and not even recognizing them anymore.

So sorry you went through this too.  It’s devastating and hurts your brain. [/quote]

That's pretty much my XW after she started having an EA. But I had seen it before - every woman who ever broke up with me, it was boom, switch flipped, I wasn't even a person to her anymore. Very disappointing in someone I'd known and loved for 18 years. I knew from past experience there's no coming back from that, but I had to try for the sake of the kids. Didn't work.[/quote]

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