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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]28 years together, love at first sight. Some minor ups and downs until 2021 when some drift and an emotional affair. Hard time for about a year but things are looking good again and we’re gonna be fine.

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How did you turn it around? What cause the EA?[/quote]

EA wasn’t intended, just a friendship that got a little intense, that situation is deeply regretted and lost forever. Friend was hurt by my actions and that guilt hasn’t gone away. 
Self improvement, therapy, accountability and space have allowed love to come back, ebbs and flows but things are better and clean between us. [/quote]

When I was in my 30's I was the friend in this scenario to someone who was married and told me I was his soul mate. I was never married, child of divorced parents with infidelity in their marriage. I was stupid and thought this was sometimes how people met. I take full responsibiity for my role in getting involved with this person. But man did he lure me in with the whole I'm so unhappy in my marriage/you're my soul mate nonsense.

To this PP: I was also the catalyst for this person's "repair" of his marriage, or at least that's what he told me. It truly damaged me, maybe for life. FYI I ended it when I realized what he was doing.

Leave single women alone. You don't get to take from them what you don't intend to give. If you don't recognize your actions as predatory, you learned nothing.[/quote]

+1 ruined my life[/quote]

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