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Reply to "How would you react: DH says he's "done working.""
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have him get a job at a local gym. He can work his way up to management or personal trainer. This is one of those I’m not asking I’m telling you spouse moments. [/quote] Asking a man with untreated depression simmering through a years-long midlife crisis to become a trainer at a local gym is just telling him to go have an affair.[/quote] +1 Agree with this PP, the "get a job at a gym" thing is a terrible idea. The DH needs therapy and help transitioning out of the military mindset, not a "job" like this one. It's a recipe for an affair. It sounds like OP would be OK with his not working a job IF he were stepping up as a father and husband--he has time to do a lot with the kids and household now and isn't doing it. That should be his first and biggest job at this point, after therapy. [/quote]
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