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[quote=Anonymous]I think you should apologize. Just don't expect anything in return because what's done is done and you can't go back. Not a bad idea to just put it out there though. I have a cautionary tale for all the brides out there. It was a sad, unfortunate incident but helped me learn so much for my own wedding on how to treat others. I lost a dear old friend because of being in her wedding and how poorly she treated others. From the start, I had laid out my work commitments and informed her of these, which she agreed was fine. Firstly, she wanted everyone to have the same dress that cost a good buck. Fine, no worries, that's what friends are for. Then we all planned and attended her bridal shower and brought a gift. After that, she decided to have a buck and doe and charge everyone, including her bridal party, the most excessive amount of money I've ever heard of to attend. I could not afford to attend, nor get the time off of work as previously told to her at the beginning of my agreement to be in her wedding. She lost her mind at me, and then demanded I buy a ticket to the buck and doe regardless of going and solicit donations from people and companies. I refused both requests. I offered to throw her a bachelorette party, whatever and wherever she wanted. She refused multiple times. Come the wedding day, I was so ill. The wedding was on the other side of the state. I happened to be 10 minutes late for wedding photos because of how sick I was and couldn't find the location. However, it all worked out, photos were taken and looked great. I also gave her a generous wedding gift. She was miserable the whole day, thanked no one in her speech and a couple of days after the wedding emailed me calling me a fucking bitch, C*** and telling me how I wasn't there for her at all on her wedding day because I couldn't afford to go to her buck and doe, how I should have called in sick to go and how I was 10 minutes late to her photo shoot and didn't throw her a "surprise" bachelorette party!. Never got a thank you card for being in her wedding or for my several hundred dollar gift. Needless to say, I will never be her friend again. I can forgive her and do and wish her well but the damage is done. She has never apologized but I would at least apprecaite the offer if she did. Do NOT be like this ladies, you will lose all your friends like she did. I am so sad for her, but learned so much for my own wedding and my bridesmaids and I had a rockin time. Its not worth it. Your wedding will never be perfect anyhow. [/quote]

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