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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op again. So give me an example. If he hits me or kicks me do I give him a time out? (For us time out means going in your room) sometimes he doesn’t care ither times he hangs on the door. Feel like we’ve tried this so many times and the behavior didn’t change. What is something I do in the moment? [/quote] By now you should have been reading 1, 2, 3 Magic instead you are procrastinating and finding excuses. Do not hit mom or anyone. First warning. You will lose your fav toy. Second warning as you see he is about to hit. You hit me again your “fav toy” is going to the garbage. Third warning. Repeat. Then take away his toy while he watches, and let him see you throw it away in the garage trash. When he picks it up, from that trash, strap him in his car seat. Drive to public trash can, throw it away and drive off. No yelling, no relenting, no negotiating. Toy gone. He will cry, you do not react nor are mad just calm.[/quote] This worked for us^^^ with similar tantrums.[/quote] This is horrible. Don’t throw out stuff. [/quote] +1. That’s insane and horrible parenting. [/quote]
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