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[quote=Anonymous]My sister and I are estranged from our parents, but we still occasionally hear bits of news from friends. Our mother was in an accident and it sparked the discussion of whether we’d go to their funerals or deathbed visits. I said absolutely not, and she said probably not. I already mourned the loss of my parents years ago, so I don’t need a funeral for closure. I’d go crazy listening to ally the lies about what good people they are. My sister hasn’t fully gotten closure. Occasionally she’ll reach out and try to keep the door open but they keep slamming it in her face. I think she might go visit if one of them were dying and asked for her or if one died and the survivor asked for her, but I know in my heart she’d regret it. I think the closest I’d consider would be visiting my sister to support her, but not go with her to anything with/for our parents. [/quote]
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