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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the birthday person invited everyone, they are expecting to pay. If it’s more of a “hey, let’s get together to celebrate X’s birthday” then it is probably each pay for their own and chip in equally for the birthday person or maybe split equally. I think it’s fine to ask, especially as splitting evenly can cause a lot of hard feelings when some people are on a budget and drinking water and others are ordering bottles of wine and apps for the table.[/quote] Not necessarily. Sometimes they want to get together for their birthday but then happily accept other’s paying for them. OP, in your shoes, I’d bow out. There’s too much risk you will be required to pay over your budget. And even if the birthday organizer says it’s all fine and she’ll cover you, in the heat of the moment someone else will say the group can’t let the birthday person pay and will rally everyone to treat her. [/quote]
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