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[quote=Anonymous]As others are trying to point out relationships, peace of mind and a good marriage are more important than the money. Be a team with your husband. See if he might agree to it if boundaries are set and agreed upon. If not, I would go with your husband. As I have said before, your parents are the ones doing something messy and problematic. Once the kids are grown, unless there is a disability or illness involved, you really need to be equal and fair. Asking you is not equalizing. They should find another way to give the same or agree to boundaries, but it won't work that way sadly. Also, don't be surprised if they still expect you to do more as they age and the private school funds didn't get them much in terms of visits or help.[/quote]
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