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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m so sorry for everyone who sharing their experience. I hope you all find the love and security you need. I’m a new mom and seeing how much effort it takes to care for a baby, it almost seems like a miracle that babies in unloving homes grow up to be adults. I don’t mean this to be snarky. Somehow even when you felt like your parents didn’t care for you, someone made sure you were fed 4-8 times a day that first year! Truly a miracle. [/quote] This is very snarky, sorry. You don’t understand the spectrum of child abuse. My mother and father both were very concerned about appearances and rule following, as most authoritarian parents are. We were well fed, very clean, well dressed, had a nice home from a material standpoint and plenty of toys and books. We were also beaten on the regular by our alcoholic abusive father and never really shown any affection or encouragement by our mother who put her lust for the abuser above the well being of her children. All of my parents children are substance abusers and have mental health problems and chronic health problems and a history of unstable intimate relationships and so do all their children thus far. Feeding a baby is about the very least parenting required. Plenty of people feed a baby and keep it alive so they can torture it emotionally and physically for years, having a personal punching bag for all their frustrations in life. [/quote]
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