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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Team Mom here. A lot of you seem to be imposing your own experiences on this. I'm sorry you had bad people as your mothers, but I don't think the scenarios you're describing here necessarily apply.

I think OP's mom owes her dad help finding a good continuing care center and an equitable, mediated divorce. But a lot of women spend their lives making sure that their husbands' lives are free from any personal inconvenience, and it's exhausting. She gets to stop, and asking for a clean break is a lot more ethical than just passive-aggressively dropping the rope[/quote]

This.  Can't say I would ever do this to my DC, their father, my husband, is twelve years older than I.  There are times I want to bang my head against the wall but, I knew what this part of our lives would be and I wouldn't think of passing this off onto my DC or abandoning my DH.  Couldn't do that to my family, that's the deal I made when I married older than myself, luckily I also married for love.[/quote]

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