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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was actually with you until you said “My friend started mentioning her husband even though I know him more”. Really op? How exactly do you know her husband?

My husband has a female friend he’s known since elementary school. She’s really good about recognizing my place as his wife.. she told a story about something he did in sixth grade, how impressed she was, and it was totally fine, it made me wish I’d known him back then, but in a good way. [b]You can bet your behind that if she told the story a little differently, (and I asked questions about what happened because of course I wasn’t there), that she’d be out of our lives. No way would I tollerate a woman hanging around minimizing my bond with my husband because she happened to meet him first. [/b] 
It doesn’t matter how long you’ve known anybody’s husband, they are not married to you and as such, you are a distant second place, or you should be. If you’re not, no wonder the women don’t like you. I wouldn’t. 
As an aside, I haven’t known a divorced woman yet who doesn’t ct like a teenager at least for a time, though a teenager you can’t influence or discipline. They are self-centered, self-focused, are doing things I can’t relate to and have no interest in doing, why would I hang around them. I have a teenager, an actual teenager, I don’t need an adult woman acting like one in my life.

The good news for you op is that things should settle down. Give it a couple years, stay away from the married men, even for g-rated boy jobs, and in a couple years things will find their new norm.   
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You are some insecure lady, pp.[/quote]

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