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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Elders move into a facility that (will eventually) accept their Medicare payment. That's it. It's not that difficult.

If you don't like what's nearby, they go to a lower COL area. [b]Where they have roots or elderly friends/siblings/where they once lived or where they grew up. Some connection. You visit.[/b] They meet and make connections in their new place. Being social with people other than family, that's on them and largely a personality thing you can't control.

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Just wow. [b]Cannot imagine feeling that way. [/b]So cold.[/quote]

Seriously. Ship your parent to a nursing home so they can be social in their new place. So cold. I hope your children treat you so well in your old age.

I go out of my way to visit my dad who is in and out of the hospital. I bring the grandkids to see him because it brings a smile to see my 5yo daughter. I tell my son that it is sad to visit my dad but it is duty and obligation. I try to model behavior that I hope they will replicate one day. I hope when I am in old age that my children will come visit me and bring my grandchildren.

I would be heartbroken if my children just sent me away.[/quote]

IME [b]what sounds cold to some [/b]is the result of dysfunctional parents.  Those parents may have had trauma of their own that led to the dysfunction.  People who had loving, involved, supportive, stable families of origin never understand the privilege this is and "can't imagine" anything else.    
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What "sounds cold" IS COLD. I can appreciate what you've shared but think it's very sad that such dysfunction continues in these families, despite the supposedly better life that the adult children now have.[/quote]

You are judgmental and don’t know what you’re talking about.  Stop.  NP by the way.[/quote]

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