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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have had 3 friends find out their husband was cheating on them in an awful, awful way.  Each was different but equally demoralizing, upsetting, disgusting and crappy.  Only one is staying with her husband and I think it was his first and only time BUT he got caught really publically.

I was shocked at the man who did this each time - never thought he was the type.  Same about one woman I know who cheated and left her husband and child(ren).

I always think now that it could be me, it could be her, him, frankly it could be anyone of us.  I dont think we ever know other people as well as we think we do, not even our husbands, parenets, children.  Everyone has secret, dark parts of themselves that they hide from others.  I used to not believe this but I know now it is true.

What would stop me, I believe, is the fear of my children hating me or not being able to look at me with love and respect.  I also would be afraid of not being able to look at myself in the mirror.  [/quote]

Like your friends, I found out that my husband was cheating on me in an awful, awful way. NO ONE would ever imagine that my husband would be the type of man to do the things he's done. People have the hardest time believing it.

Since my separation began, I have found an inner strength that I never imagined I had. My days are getting better and better - I realize I can survive without a husband. Life goes on, and it can be a full, joyful, new life. But my children - that's different. The legacy of their father's cheating will overshadow their lives, and it's heartbreaking. They don't know about it now, but it's not something that can be kept a secret forever. Sooner or later they will start asking hard questions. I dread that day, but I probably don't dread it as much as their dad does.

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Americans are so uptight about infidelity.  You need to accept it and move past it, and it should not be the reason to end a marriage.
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