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[quote=Anonymous]Honestly it sounds like she is very unhappy and depressed and is looking for skapegoats to blame for her unhappiness. I think the best thing to do is to distance yourself and let her figure this out on her own. When children grow up they often turn their fears and insecurities into anger towards their parents. I’m sure the therapist is feeding this narrative too. Some are just terrible about asking bait questions and basically having their patients come to the co clusuon that they come from broken homes. I was in intensive therapy and the therapist tried to blame my mom but I shut it down. Even if she was wrong in certian situations, I knew I couldn’t heal by blaming the people closest to me. My mom was basically a good mom. Good luck to you. Give her the space she needs and hopefully she will figure out the real source of her anxiety and depression. [/quote]
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