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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Been dating a guy for a couple of months. One of my pet peeves is that he takes forever to respond to text sometimes. He says it’s because he is destressing from work and unplugs sometimes. I find it very irritating and have expressed that. He is not married so please no one suggest that. He could be seeing someone else, though volunteered on his own that he’s not. Some people lie, who knows? Outside of this issue we get along very well and are very attracted to each other. We both want sex! But I’m hesistant because the idea that it takes him 24 hours to reply to some texts turns me off. Am I being reasonable?[/quote]

LOL. First, anyone (man or woman) who is really into another person will ALWAYS - ALWAYS - ALWAYS - make time to text/call/contact you.  It does not take a day to respond.  That's BS because everyone knows everyone has their phone on their person almost 24/7.  Please.  In the bathroom?  Checks phone.  In car waiting at light?  Checks phone.  At work or home?  Checks phone.  In bed?  Checks phone.  Come on.

He's just not into you.  That's it.  Any man who is into a woman will be LOOKING FOR MESSAGE from that woman.  To be candid, you're likely a possible side action so he's keeping you around.  He's probably trying to date someone else.  Since he knows you like him it makes sense for him to keep you around for potential sex and company.[/quote]

Unfortunately, I think this is my take as well. My husband and I started dating in the late 90's so before texting. But when we started dating, he would drop everything to talk to me. A couple times I called him rather late at night and he would pretend he wasn't just woken up from a deep sleep and was happy to talk to me. The mode of communication changes, but if somebody is into you, they want to communicate and will find a way. [/quote]

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