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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you are trying to figure out if your significant other checks all the boxes, but you don't even know what the boxes should be?

Do you love this person enough to spend the rest of your life with them? How about we start with that.[/quote]

But you are crazy if you think love is enough. I don't think it is weird for OP to crowd source this. Some people don't think of stuff until it is too late. For example, DH and I never talked about WHEN we had kids. We both agreed on 2-3 with him leaning more toward 2 and me leaning more toward 3, but both fully accepting the others number. But we did not talk about when. Timing worked out and we were in full agreement as to when to start trying and got pregnant quickly. But I know plenty of couples where the timing ended up being a huge issue. Also, where to settle and build your life together. This can be a huge problem for some couples who grew up in totally different areas of the country or world and are fine with where they are when they meet but not staying there forever.

OP, finances are one of the biggest things that couples fight over. So lots of questions on that, but also as someone else said, just making observations is helpful, too, to see if you are similar. [/quote]

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