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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Fat bodies are not good bodies. Soft lower bellies are fine. Her boyfriends will love it. [/quote] I have what you would likely call a fat body. I am 5'6" and 170 lbs, 22% body fat and super strong. I can out lift many similarly sized men. Though my body fat % is quite low, I don't look it. I lam soft in the lower belly and have had some cellulite on my thighs and bottom since I was a teen (I was also a competitive cheerleader and softball player at that time and practicing/training 2x day). I am healthy, I exercise regularly, have low blood pressure, low cholesterol, a low A1C number and according to my Apple Watch, average 15,000 steps/day. Women like you have been trying to put me down my entire life for my body that appears fat to them. Sorry to get racial. I should be specific. WHITE women have been trying to put me down for my entire life for my body. WOC never do. OP, please do whatever you can to prepare your daughter to handle the emotional tormenting that is coming her way from other (likely white) girls. To the (likely white) women PPs who would encourage a tween to exercise to fix her soft belly, do some soul searching on how damaged you are and don't speak to children until you can heal your internalized body shame.[/quote]
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