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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]just talked about this with my 10 yo. we expect her to move out when she gets married. i don't see the point of moving out if you are not starting a family.

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You don't see the point of s woman learning how to be independent and luving on their own?  Would you say that if you had a son?[/quote]

DP here. Yes. Independence should be learned at the parents home by learning to budget, cook, clean, drive, do laundry, do yardwork, study, excel in your career, be responsible, save money, take care of health, learn how to live in society, learn to put in the time to maintain the infrastructre of a household, learn traditions of your culture,  increase your wealth, meet social obligations and increase and strengthen your network, grow spiritually, have a backup for life's difficult situations.

The reason that it is important for young people in WASP homes to leave the house is because they will not be able to find a life partner without sexually test driving lots of people.  What they do not understand and most other cultures also pair up, get married and have a family quite successfully and with dating other people.

That is the reason that in this society when people are so very unhappy about their personal lives and relationships, immigrants with different cultural norms are still thriving and holding fast to these advantageous practices.  
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The adult children of immigrants living here seem extremely unhappy with the amount of control and pressure their parent exert on them as adult. You are not independent if your parents are forcing their will on your life choices. Parents like you don’t want their children to move out because they will lose control. American culture is different, young people are encouraged to think for themselves and learn adulting by doing and pursue their own dreams not their parents dreams.
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