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[quote=Anonymous]new poster here's a question: I sometimes write to my best friend, sister or mother about my concerns, worries and problems which do sometimes (not often) revolve around my relationship with my husband. I don't want him reading these because sometimes they are written to VENT about him to people I trust. My husband and I do have a pretty good open communication and anything I say to my mom about him I have also brought up with DH. But the fact is there are times I want their perspective on something or I just want to vent or lean on someone other than my husband. (Like about how hard he works, his long hours, his taciturn nature). And while my husband knows my passwords and has gone into my account for various reasons (and told me later...he needed an email address, or an email we both received that he deleted. etc) I WOULD be upset if he started reading my "sent emails" to my mom or sister. 99% of them would have NOTHING to do with him but the other 1% would. And he would get hurt and embarrassed because i don't think he understands that women are usually more open with their friends/fam about their home lives and marriage and that it is normal to send the occasional email about one's worries or fears... [/quote]
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