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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes the partner deserves to be cheated on—they are stuck in a marriage and the threat of losing their kids are held over them. So they either leave asap, or [b]cheat for sanity[/b] and to buy time.

Life is not black and white.  Not all cheaters are bad. Not all faithful spouses are good.

Everyone defines marriage differently.  Classic marriage for life between a man and a woman has evolved, as has marital expectations. [/quote]

There is no such thing as "cheating for sanity".

Frankly, anyone that needy isn't sane to start with, and cheating certainly won't help.[/quote]

This is their justification - - they deserved it, they caused it. This attitude becomes the driving force to demeaning, cruel and callous behavior, with no concern or feelings. The more it goes on, the meaner they become. I also think the thrill of the cheating plus the justification as to why, gives them a moral pass in their minds. It is their excuse and are sticking with it. They also tend to rewrite history, anything to remove any fault. I truly believe it stems from a mid-life crisis and I completely believe that once a cheater, always a cheater; it is their motto in life across the board - lying is second nature.[/quote]

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