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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t think the DH is entirely blameless here. He didn’t offer to pay for the MIL’s groceries? The MIL who moved from another state and provides full-time, likely low cost childcare? He is thoughtless and inconsiderate at best. The MIL is probably picking up on this and other concerns, such as him not being a good father, which the OP mentioned in her post. I suspect the DH is not an equal parent, which is why the OP is hanging on to her mom and is using her as the co-parent instead of forcing the DH to step up. Barring some special needs, I also find it strange that at 19 months the child already had several daycare trials and none of them worked out. If daycare really is such a poor fit and money is no object, hiring a nanny is a great alternative and would eliminate the third person in your marriage, OP.  Agree with others, grandma needs to go as a childcare provider and revert to her role as grandma, or she will continue to grow even bolder and more toxic, negatively influencing the OP against her husband and the child against her other grandparents. I[/quote]

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