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[quote=Anonymous]From the OPs description, I can’t tell what the exact details were that caused him to leave without her.

It is clear that he told her the outfit looked bad. While not perfect behavior, I think many of us agree that stuff like this gets said in marriages without it rising to the level of abuse.

Then OP says that she refused to change. Which we all agree is her right.

But then she says that DH went to the party without her. Not clear what happened here. Did he say that he was absolutely not letting her come with them unless she changed? Which is a problem. Or did she pull a hissy fit about his previous (not perfect but not egregious) comment and refuse to come.  Which is not abuse by the DH but immaturity of OP.

On the stuffing face comment, I can’t tell if DH was telling Op to stop stuffing her own face, or if it was about stuffing the DCs face. I think the latter because DC was the one mumbling that they couldn’t understand?

Long story: I think OPs narrative has gaps that make all this sound more like tit for tat immaturity than a one sided abuser. I’m not even necessarily seeing abuse from the DH (eg if he just told her the outfit looks bad but she refused to come - no abuse there). [/quote]

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