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Reply to "Ex/childrens father freaked out that I took plan B"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I understand where you are. It's hard coming out of a divorce and it's very tempting to use sex as a way of validating your own desirability. I've been there. I can tell you from experience that what you are doing is damaging. You will regret it. I know it's really hard. But stop dating. Stop texting random men. Stop having sex. Give yourself time to be alone. It can be scary, but that's where the healing is. It's in being completely comfortable being by yourself. You do not need men or sex to validate your own worthiness. Just stop. Take a breath. Limit contact with your ex. Get some therapy. And learn to love being who you are apart from relationships with men. Your kids need your to focus on them right now.[/quote]
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